As a child, I loved PBS’s Mr. Rogers’ Neighborhood. Fred Rogers, a sensitive soul who believed TV could be used for good, created the show to deliver a wholesome message of love and belonging. Informed by his faith (Mr. Rogers was also Rev. Rogers of the Presbyterian church) he offered a Christlike example of living in community and loving beyond barriers. His compassionate heart and generous spirit filled the airwaves of every episode.
Look for the Helpers
Mr. Rogers famously quoted his mother as saying, “Look for the helpers. There are always helpers.” I’ve thought a lot about that quote in the last few weeks as I read headlines that depressed me. Greenland, Venzuela, Minnesota: if it isn’t one national crisis, it’s another innocent person shot by law enforcers.
So then, what happens when helpers are murdered for their assistance? What then? Do we just keep looking for more?
No. We do not. At least not if we are adults.
Origin of Quote
Mr. Rogers’ mother made this comment to a little boy who needed to feel safe. Then, that little boy grew up and shared his mother’s wisdom with the children who tuned in to Mr. Rogers’ Neighborhood. And, less we think the Neighborhood‘s audience lived during simpler times, let’s recall the dates of the broadcast. Mr. Rogers’ Neighborhood ran from 1968 (the Vietnam War ended in 1973) through the Cold War, the fall of the Soviet Union, and the Gulf War, ending less than two weeks before 9-11-2001. Children in any era need to be assured that there are trustworthy adults who can handle difficult situations.
So while the famous quote applies to children, it also says something to adults. That is, “Adults, be the helpers!”
What is your “Yes?”
On Sunday mornings, I often ask my congregation, “What is your “yes?” For most of us, it is not hightailing it to the nearest war zone; but that does not mean we can’t contribute.
What is your “yes?” Or maybe it is time for a “Yes, and . . . ?”
- My mother-in-law prayed without ceasing for countless individuals who were changed by her devotion. She couldn’t walk, but she could pray. She did that with faithful determination.
- My friend Traci is a social worker in the school system who advocates for students long after her work hours end. In fact, this pretty much describes nearly every public school employee I’ve ever known.
- My mother has mailed thousands of notes to encourage others and has delivered many meals to people in need.
- I have family and friends whose “yes” is a monthly contribution.
- I have many friends who go to protests to join their voices with like-minded people.
- I know those who stand alongside those with addiction, those fighting mental illness, or those experiencing homelessness.
What about you? We all have a “yes” we have not yet used. Now is the time. Jesus said to Love God and love people. Let’s get on that.
